When we said “I do” 10 years ago, it meant that we needed to consummate our marriage as what God has instructed us.
" Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife and the shall become one flesh "
"Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate "
After wedding day until before the kids arrive, it's usually a honeymoon period for most couples. But after the kid arrives, the world suddenly turns upside down. Taking care the kids are really taking out the energy and pushing the patience to the limits.
Most of the couple will give up their sex life after having the kids because they have no more energy to please each other.
It also happened to us, during first year after our wedding day, it's a honeymoon period where we had only each other. We could please our partner day and night but after the kids arrived especially for the first year of his life, it did change our sex life.
But we always remember that our partner is a priority before our kids because without our partner, we were unable to raise and nurture the kids.
Therefore we always put an effort, set quality time to renew our marriage covenant at least once or twice a week.
It's really drawing our relationship closer and more intimate.
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