Confirmation from God

After a week since our official launch, nothing has happened yet. No try-on bookings.

Doubt began to seep in—did I make the right decision? Is WinterBuddy truly what God wants me to do?

Part of me feels convinced that yes, this is God’s calling. But another part questions whether I really want this, or if perhaps God is calling me to simply be a stay-at-home mom. I found myself torn—especially as the reality seems to support the latter.

Last Friday, our family attended a vocation talk by two priests and two sisters. I recalled one sister’s story about her discernment. During the Eucharistic consecration, she asked God for a sign—confirmation that becoming a nun was His will, not hers. And the answer she received was: “I already gave you the way.” When she asked again, the same answer came.

That stayed with me. I realized there’s nothing wrong with asking God for confirmation—just like a confused child seeking assurance. Even 2,000 years ago, Jesus’ disciples needed signs. He never scolded them for their doubts.

So today, during the Eucharistic consecration at Mass, I asked God for a sign—if WinterBuddy is truly His will for me.

After Mass, everything seemed the same. No signs. But later, as we dropped my husband off at the MRT station, we had a short conversation that stirred something.

May 10 was our courtship anniversary. He suddenly pointed to the condo where I celebrated my birthday years ago and asked, “How did you celebrate there? That’s not where I lived.” Then he joked, asking if we were already a couple back then.

It was a light moment—but then, unexpectedly, a gentle inner voice asked me:

"Why did you choose your husband back then?"

I answered:
Because of his character. Even though he had no steady job, I could be fully myself with him.

Then the voice continued:
"These are the same questions you need to ask about WinterBuddy."

Even if it hasn’t produced results yet:

• Does this business bring value to you, others, and the earth?

• Does it align with your conscience?

• Does it allow you to express your gifts and talents?

If the answer is yes—then this is it.

I asked again, “But why no bookings yet?”

Then I was reminded of our courtship 19 years ago. We started with nothing, yet God always provided—just in time and just enough. We may not be rich in wealth, but we are rich in many other ways.

And maybe… that was the sign. A quiet confirmation. And for that, I am truly grateful.