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A dozen of Love 2020


I remembered the day we got married, I told my parents I wanted to have a date that's easy to remember which is 6-7-8 (6th July 2008).
Then my dad jokingly told me, today is easy to remember too 5-7-8 MAJU maPAN (liMA tuJUh delaPAN) which is in Bahasa means being prosperous slowly but sure forward.

And when I reflected back today, how his simple words of blessings came true.
When we flashed back how we started from nothing and how we are today, it's not because of our strength and luck. It's purely God's daily grace and providence.

Like any other couples, we cry, we fight, we celebrate and we pray.
We had different seasons in life too.
However, we always come back to the creator of our marriage whenever we face the giant storms.

Our daily bread yesterday, today, tomorrow and the rest of our life is John 15:5.


We chose this reading during our wedding as we knew that we can't live without God even a second away.
We may make mistakes here and there because we are not perfect human. But from these mistakes, we learn to be better person for each other.

We offer our 12th anniversary today to God. We let Him to make use of our relationship, our family to be the salt, light and city built on hilltop.


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