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Korea girls trip - reflection

This was my first overseas girls' trip, and we chose Korea as our destination. Along the way, I had some personal reflections that helped me discover more about myself.

1. Adaptability
At first, I felt a little uncomfortable sharing a room and sleeping in close quarters with strangers, even though we were all women. Each of us had different sleeping habits, but thankfully, I was able to adapt quickly and slept well throughout the trip.

2. Dare to Be Different
Most of the girls had insecurities about their appearance and decided to undergo beauty treatments, but I stood firm in my belief in natural beauty. I’ve always believed that each person is uniquely created by God, and there’s nothing wrong with having flaws. True beauty isn’t just skin deep; it comes from within. Even though my face may not be "perfect," I embrace my individuality, knowing that I am a limited edition created by God.

3. Self-Mastery and Self-Control
The girls indulged in shopping sprees, and while it was tempting—especially with skincare, fashion, and souvenirs at such affordable prices—I knew myself. My skin is sensitive, so I didn’t want to experiment with unfamiliar products. I also prefer clothes that are comfortable and timeless, rather than following fast-moving trends. When it came to snacks, I bought just enough to share with family and friends, being mindful of what I consume.

4. Putting God First
Even though we were on holiday, I was grateful to have the opportunity to wake up early, spend quiet time with God, and pray the rosary each morning. Despite the temptation of shopping and the distractions around me, I had the courage to attend Mass alone. That was a special moment of peace and reflection for me.

Overall, this trip was a beautiful blend of "me-time" and "girls' time," and I learned a lot about my strengths, values, and personal growth.



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