This is our 3rd week joining Bachata Partner dance and we have so much fun in the past 3 weeks. It's time to practice, and it's not easy for hubby who never dance before. He uses his logic to memorise and analysing the steps and it's something new for him in the world of dancing.
However, there are many life lesson we have from this Bachata dance.
1. Husband is the Leader, Wife is the follower
Basically if the leader doesn't give the clue what is the next step, the follower won't know what's next.
If the leader makes a wrong step/move, it jeopardize the whole dance.
However, if the follower makes the wrong step/move, it's still can be saved.
2. Leader must take charge to lead, follower must be humble enough to be lead
It's a struggle for me, sometimes I know what should do next but I can't lead instead giving him a chance to lead. There are many occasion that he is totally blank eventhough we have choreograph the steps and I want to take a charge but that's not the rule for Bachata dance.
Eventhough we are still focusing on memorising the steps and don't have any connection yet, we will be there in a year hahaha.
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