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Healing process in the relationship



This weekend is a fruitful weekend, healing process started in our relationship.

Hubby started to open up, shared what he felt, his weakness and challenges. It's kinda painful when I heard that he's still had a thought of other woman but it's all by God's grace that I would be able to stay calm and took it in my stride.

There's nothing greater than love to conquer all of these problems. I knew that how much painful it is, I couldn't hate or leave him behind. The more I saw how struggle he is to get out from this evil mind games, the more I love him.



We had an ice cream date last Friday, we teased each other as we were in courtship.

Then on weekend, we spent our quality time with the kids having meal together at Hawker center, japanese restaurant and dessert shop.



At night, we did check in again and we had a great make up sex.

We gave our life, souls to each other as whole thus our make up sex is one of the best in kinds.

I know there will be ups and downs and the temptation is always there, however I believe that God's grace is sufficient enough for us to overcome this turbulence together.



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