Focus one at a time

As I have been decluttering my life as there are many noises and choices, I remembered this advise from one of respectable finance coach in Indonesia.

He told me as a company, you need to focus on one thing, go deep, master and be the market leader and not half way jumping and starting another company.

It just resonates with what hubby told me last night. Pick one, focus and learn and be a master of it.

I realise that God gives me multi talents, I can learn many things in the shortest period of time but I lack persistence. When there are big giants in front of me, I am easily distracted and looking for way out instead of digging through it and make a break through.

I realise that I am racing against time. I am not that young that can job hopping, try here and there as I have more responsibilities in my hand right now.

Thus, I really need to focus, pick one subject, dive deeper and master it.

I guess these are the steps that I am going to implement

1. Refresh my life purpose

What is my ikigai, what is my rich life, what is my purpose driven life ?

2. Redo blueprint

What am I gonna do to achieve my ikigai and my rich life ? what are the baby steps to go to there ?

3. Reprioritise the goal

What I want to do first ?

4. Refocus energy and capacity

How am I gonna manage my time and energy with works, family, church and friends ? Can I say no when they ask my help ?

5. Review and repeat

To ends it, this is the nice quote from Bruce Lee

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