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Golden Handcuffs story

This article is from LinkedIn and it's like a "BULL-EYE" for my situation right now.


"Golden Handcuffs"


You ever heard of this term before? 

It's like when your job throws so many perks at you that it feels like you can't leave, even if you want to. 

Are you trapped in these golden handcuffs? 

Let me break it down for you.

No More Passion:
If your job feels more 'meh' than 'wow,' and the only thing keeping you there is the money, confirm plus chop you're wearing golden handcuffs.

Scared of Change:
You thinking of leaving, but the idea got you more scared than watching a horror movie alone? It's like those golden handcuffs got you stuck in one place, bro.

Ignoring Discontent:
You wake up every morning, go to work, and deep down inside, you're not happy. But you're pretending everything is okay because the paycheck is sweet? Bro, those are some serious golden handcuffs.

Hold Up on Personal Goals:
You wanted to start that side hustle or go back to school, but the job got you holding back because you're scared to lose those financial perks. Sounds like golden handcuffs tightening up.

Feeling Like Stuck Glue:
Your career ain't moving, and you feel stuck like chewing gum under a table. If the fear of losing those money perks is the main thing keeping you stuck, yep, golden handcuffs are on.

So, if you're nodding along, maybe it's time to ask yourself: Are those golden handcuffs worth it? 


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