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40 days journey to find the first love

I have decided to rediscover my "First Love" — my love for Jesus — especially during this Lenten season. This is a  40-day journey into the desert , a time to reflect, to find who I truly am, and to reconnect with who God is in my life. I pray that by the end of this Lenten season, I will experience healing, regain my self-confidence, and most importantly, restore my confidence in God. I am still hurting and struggling with feelings of disappointment when I remember how I was cornered and cast aside, even though my only intention was to help the company grow and succeed. For 4.5 years, I prayed faithfully for the leaders, the staff, and the prosperity of the business. Yet, in the end, I was left feeling unappreciated and humiliated. As much as I want to forgive and move on, it feels like every door I try to open remains firmly shut. Even when a few doors seemed to offer hope, they quickly closed, leaving me back at square one. I often feel useless and not good enough. I was e...

Trip to Bangkok in less than 48 hours

This trip almost didn’t happen! When my husband suggested I join him on his business trip to Bangkok, I hesitated—our kids have exams next week! But after some thought, I figured… why not? Who knows when his next Bangkok trip will be? So, two weeks ago, I told him,  “I’m in!” —but just for a quick  3-day, 2-night adventure. I flew in with Scoot in the evening (with one-hour delay 🙃) and landed in Bangkok around 7 PM. Hubby picked me up, and we made a quick stop at  Siam Factory Outlet  near the airport to check out winter jackets. Sadly, the selection was small, and the prices weren’t much better than Singapore’s—so no luck there! Exploring Bangkok Solo!  ðŸš¶‍♀️ While hubby was busy with meetings the next morning, I went on a little solo adventure. First stop:  The Grand Palace!  It was grand, but honestly, also quite packed. I joined a free tour (highly recommend!) and learned some fascinating history. Next, I walked over to  Wat Pho , home to th...

Happy Valentine's Day 2025

As we grow older in our relationship, we've learned to spend money more wisely. Instead of splurging on a high-end fine dining experience, we decided to celebrate Valentine’s Day with a day trip to Johor Bahru. Our day started with a morning hike at Bukit Timah, followed by a delicious Korean BBQ lunch and dessert in Johor Bahru. We also did a bit of grocery shopping before heading back to Singapore. With the rising cost of living in Singapore, we prefer to spend our money on travel experiences. Next up—Vietnam for my birthday trip! Happy Valentine’s Day! ❤️

Do What He Tell You to do...

These past few days, I’ve been overwhelmed with uncertainty and anxiety. Negative thoughts have been echoing in my mind: "Most of your friends in your CG received great job offers—why not you?" "Can you really make this business work?" "Tuition fees are rising, insurance premiums are increasing—can your husband's salary cover everything?" "Will people even rent from you?" "It’s a seasonal business—what will you do the rest of the year?" "Finding a job would be the easiest way to earn money." Logically, all these concerns are valid. But instead of giving me clarity, they only bring more anxiety and confusion. I started questioning myself— Did I make the right decision? Sometimes, I catch myself scrolling through LinkedIn, searching for jobs that might suit me. But nothing seems to align. As I prepare for my business launch, I feel a mix of emotions. On one hand, I’m excited and energized, knowing I can finally use my gifts ...

Faith, Gratitude and Perspective

Last Thursday, my husband and I had an argument over something trivial. The kids were running late, but I insisted they brush their teeth, even if it meant being three minutes late. I wanted them to learn the lesson that responsibilities shouldn’t be skipped, no matter the circumstances. My husband was upset with how I handled the situation. He expressed that he felt angry and disrespected. In response, I raised my voice too, overwhelmed by the pressures of managing the kids and navigating my new business venture. Although we agreed to talk it out that day, our conversation didn’t resolve much. We withdrew into our own emotional spaces, becoming distant while still fulfilling our roles as parents. By Saturday, we decided to have a deeper conversation. I shared the darker side of my feelings—how my faith felt like it was hanging by a thread after what happened at my workplace last year. I felt cornered, as if every door had closed on me. Even with this new business opportunity, I often ...

The Feast of Presentation of The Lord - 2 Feb 2025

2nd Feb was a special day as I officially registered my business on the Feast of the Presentation of the Lord with the business name : WinterBuddy Singapore LP (pending approval) I want to offer this business to God, trusting that He will multiply it into a blessing—not only for our family but for other families and the planet as well. God planted this calling in me two years ago. Though I had no prior knowledge or experience, He inspired me, and I finally said yes. I trust in His grace and providence, believing that as long as I walk with Him, He will provide everything I need. One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned from my previous business ventures is to never rush ahead. God moves at His own pace—He may seem slow to us, but He holds all time in His hands. Even when we think He’s late, He is always in control. So now, I move forward with faith, following my instincts on what steps to take next. And each day, I will pause after dinner to focus on what matters most—caring for and te...

Givethanks at Church of Lady Akita

We had the opportunity to visit the newly built Church of Our Lady of Akita at PIK, designed to resemble the original church in Akita, Japan. This church is well known for the supernatural phenomenon where a statue of Mother Mary shed tears 101 times—scientifically confirmed to be human tears. The atmosphere was solemn and serene. We took a moment for a short prayer, giving thanks for the past year and asking for blessings of good health, joy, peace, hope, love, and prosperity in the new year.

Happy Chinese New Year 2025 - Welcoming Year of Snake

We had our Chinese New Year reunion dinner at Sentral Restaurant and were glad we chose the first session from 5:00–7:00 PM. Shortly after, heavy rain poured down, causing traffic jams and flooding everywhere. Thankfully, we made it back to our hotel by 8:30 PM and had a good night’s rest. The next day, we visited our grandparents' house to reunite with family and relatives. We also caught up with friends, as well as my brother and his kids—since we only get to meet once a year. Grateful that everyone is healthy and well.