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Life Lessons from Raft Building Exercise

After the raft-building session, I returned to my room and took some time to reflect on the valuable life lessons I had just experienced—and how they apply to the real world.

The Objective

The goal of the activity was clear:

  • Build a raft using bamboo poles and barrels.

  • Ensure it’s strong and stable enough to carry passengers to a designated point.

  • Return safely to shore.

  • Disassemble the raft back to its original components: just bamboo and barrels.

None of us had any experience in raft building—or even scouting—so we all started from zero. The instructor provided some guidance with clear, step-by-step instructions:

  1. Show us a miniature model of the completed raft.

  2. Demonstrate how to tie knots securely to hold the bamboo together.

  3. Emphasize that the string should be wet to prevent it from breaking in water.

  4. Ensure each barrel is positioned to float and supported by two bamboo poles.

  5. Begin from the outer frame, measure the barrels, and then tie the inner sections.

Was Everyone Listening?

At first, it seemed like everyone was paying attention. But once we started working, some interesting differences emerged.

We were divided into three groups of mixed adults and children:

  • Group 1: 4 adults and 2 tweens
    ➝ They finished first, sailed to the designated point, returned, and successfully disassembled their raft.

  • Group 2: 4 adults and 3 teens
    ➝ They finished second, completed the journey, and disassembled their raft.

  • Group 3: 5 adults
    ➝ They finished last. Halfway through, strong waves hit and their raft broke apart. They couldn’t complete the task.

Observing Human Behavior

From this exercise, I noticed five distinct types of people:

  1. Active listeners — Fast learners who quickly apply what they’ve learned. They're also hands-on and action-oriented.

  2. Active listeners — Willing to learn but need more time to process and apply the knowledge.

  3. Active listeners — Learning isn’t their strength in this context, but they contribute meaningfully in other areas based on their strengths.

  4. Non-listeners — Prefer to solve problems their own way, relying on creativity that doesn’t align with the structured approach required.

  5. Non-listeners — Unwilling to learn and prefer to instruct others rather than contribute directly.

Who Will Likely Thrive in Life?

People in categories 1, 2, and 3.
Because they are open, adaptable, and know how to contribute—either by learning or by using their strengths wisely.

This activity was a powerful mirror of real life. It wasn’t just about building a raft; it was about observing attitudes, teamwork, and how people respond to challenges.

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