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Marriage Renewal

The Church of the Holy Cross recently celebrated its 45th anniversary with an exciting program, including a Marriage Renewal Vow ceremony for couples. We attended the mass, where we renewed our vows in the presence of our children and my mom, followed by a delightful lunch provided by the church. During the ceremony, we were inspired by a couple celebrating an incredible 69 years of marriage. Both looked great and clearly still in love. We also saw couples who had been together for 64 and 58 years. They serve as our marriage goals: to remain in love and faithful to each other throughout our lives. It’s a testament to how a strong, happy relationship can be a true anti-aging secret, even amidst modern technology. The greatest gift we can give our children is a solid example of a loving marriage.
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Open house !

This month we open our new house for our cell group mates. Last Saturday, we hosted Family Builders B to our home. Next Sunday, we hosted  PD KKIHS team 

Reframe it !

Yesterday, I found myself battling with my emotions. I’ve been trying to stay positive, but I can’t shake this feeling of being down. Two weeks ago, a company that had been in negotiations with me earlier this year reached out to schedule a meeting. We briefly discussed their projects and their need for someone to manage client relationships, as they were overwhelmed and lacked an Indonesian capable of doing so. They promised to send me a draft of the employment agreement last Wednesday, but after waiting without any news, I messaged the CEO. He assured me it would be sent over by Monday. However, Monday came and went with no updates, leaving me feeling like I was being strung along. I tried not to get my hopes up, reminding myself that if it’s meant to be, it will work out. I chose to give them the benefit of the doubt, as I can’t control the situation. Two days ago, our helper informed me she wasn’t feeling well and might not return on time. Despite my mom’s concerns that she might b

House blessing - House of Transfiguration

Last Saturday, we celebrated a house blessing for our new love nest, led by Fr. Benedict, a friend of my husband from NTU. We invited our family and close friends for this intimate occasion. The day began with the house blessing, followed by a rosary prayer and a thanksgiving Mass. We concluded the celebration with a wonderful meal and also honored the birthdays of our October babies. We ordered Nasi Tumpeng, complemented by delicious potluck dishes brought by our extended family and friends. We are truly grateful for all the blessings we have received, especially this new home. May it become a sanctuary filled with love, peace, and joy for our family.

Let it Go

This morning, while browsing Instagram, I came across a post featuring Nemo and Dory inside a whale's mouth. Dory urged Nemo to let go, to which he hesitantly asked if she was sure. Dory admitted she wasn't certain, but she had faith that everything would work out. In that moment, Nemo let go of her hand, and both of them were swallowed by the whale. Just in time, the whale expelled water, releasing them back into the ocean. This scene reminded me of the importance of letting go and trusting God, even when we can’t see what lies ahead. Often, things work out in ways we never could have imagined. As October is Rosary Month, I wish the best for all of us. As I embrace my new role as a stay-at-home mom, I’m taking my time to explore new job opportunities. I’m dedicating 80% of my focus to my family and home, while reserving 20% for my professional pursuits. Deep down, I still yearn for personal achievements and to make a social impact. However, I trust that if God has different pl

Hello Optimistic October !

I'm starting this month with an optimistic and positive attitude by attending a resume crafting workshop organized by E2i. This experience has been an eye-opener for me—it's practical and incredibly helpful as I refine my resume. Key Takeaways: Create a master resume that includes all past experiences and achievements. Identify and articulate transferable skills, job-related skills, and self-management skills. Understand the job specifications and descriptions, focusing on key terms. Keep your resume simple and relevant to the job description. Leverage AI and social media (LinkedIn, personal websites, YouTube) to enhance your profile and portfolio. I’m excited to try this new approach and plan to apply to three job openings to see how it works!

Embracing Life - Starting with Gratitude

I’m ending September by embracing life, enjoying a slower pace, and being present with myself. Today, I kicked things off with a workout at the gym, focusing on leg day, followed by a refreshing 30-minute brisk walk home. I felt invigorated! Next, I cleaned up my office laptop in preparation for handing it over this Friday. This was an intentional step to let go and move forward as I embrace my new role in life. I treated myself to a healthy bowl of prawn mee at my comfort sanctuary, enjoying the soothing sounds of slow love jazz while journaling. Now, I’m getting ready to prepare the topic for our upcoming Cell group this Saturday and organizing a study plan for my sons, who have exams in two weeks. I’m starting to truly enjoy my life and my role as a stay-at-home mom. It’s not so bad after all. I’m also keeping my husband, kids, and all those in need of prayer in my thoughts.

Reset to Zero Ground

Last week was an emotional roller coaster, as I mentioned in my previous blog . On September 28th, I received a revelation: my period arrived eight days earlier than expected according to my app. I was overjoyed, believing that God had answered my prayers. This felt like a sign that being a stay-at-home mom was my next role. I had promised God that if I wasn’t pregnant, I would be willing to follow His will, including nurturing my three boys at home. My first reaction was one of disbelief: "Really? Is this it, God? The end of my career and all my hard work?" Then, I met Tante Elaine, a speaker from Indonesia invited to discuss the importance of being fruitful. Her life story resonated deeply with me and provided another affirmation of my path. She reassured me that I am multitalented and that God might have plans for me that are greater than I can imagine for His Kingdom. She encouraged me to be patient during this process, reminding me that just because we can’t see the frui