Davin Indah Love story

Last Wednesday we had another arguments after I shared the article from Focus on Family about Emotional Affairs. He didn't feel good and thought that I judged him and we were back to square 1 again even though he has done his best to win me back. I knew and appreciated his efforts, the last 5 days during long weekend was one of the best days in my life that I felt over the moon and I didn't want to lose that moment. Some parts of me still clinging on the hurt and felt insecure especially when he's going to meet his "former fling". I told him where I am coming from and he understood. He promised to show me all the chats he had and no secret and lies between us. On Thursday, he asked me to follow him for his usual tuition but I preferred to have my "me time" so I ended up going for shopping therapy at Orchard. I bought some underwear and lingeries as well as casual tshirt because there is on - going promotion thus I thought it's a good deal. At night, ...

Here's another useful tips from Focus on the family website which some are applicable in our marriage too. When the affair comes to light : Do not make any quick decision to end the marriage -  Begin the process of healing your heart—identifying your emotions and grieving the impact of the affair. Take your time -  If you are the offending spouse, admitting the exact nature of what happened without concealing critical facts is important. However, a fuller picture of the essential details will take some time and guidance to prepare. Tell the truth, but don’t rush into the intimate details immediately. Minimizations, omissions, and unnecessarily graphic information can do additional harm. Be truthful, be patient, and seek guidance on how to appropriately engage in full disclosure. Give each other individual space - The revelation of an affair can be very traumatic and intense. Take a time - out when you need to de-escalate emotions Seek support - Surround yourself with those...

Another article from Focus Family group which is our self - reminder and also to guard ourselves against the evil who loves to deceive us  A n emotional affair may start with a conversation over the Internet, or an innocent friendship in the workplace. Maybe it begins with a simple thought:  Unlike my spouse, this person really understands me .  What can it hurt? I need a little excitement in my life. These romances may seem harmless — perhaps even a “safe” alternative to cheating on your spouse. But  emotional affairs  venture into dangerous territory; while they may not lead to physical involvement, they can still devastate marriages. Not just a harmless romance The  American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy  warns against emotional affairs: “A new crisis of infidelity is emerging in which people who never intended to be unfaithful are unwittingly crossing the line from platonic friendships into romantic relationships. Not just “innocent f...

This article is from Focus Family and I thought it's good as self reminder for both of us so we don't take for granted of each other and commit to maintain marriage fidelity for the rest of our lives. Nobody wakes up one day and suddenly decides to begin an extramarital affair. Infidelity begins in the heart and mind. By the time a person physically commits adultery, he or she has been indulging for quite some time in progressively more intense mental and   emotional affairs . Likewise, marital fidelity begins long before marriage. It begins as a promise we make to ourselves to be a person of faithful character before marriage ever enters the picture. It is a promise we make to our future spouse when we get engaged, and it is a vow we make to our spouse when we get married. Marital fidelity is a daily commitment to seek the best for your spouse and family. Strengthening Marital Fidelity Marital fidelity is strengthened when you affirm your spouse, listen to your spouse, and se...

This is another best holiday since we resume to normal life. We had couple time and family time and it seems that everyday is a productive day. I and hubby had couple time when the kids were having afternoon nap. We went for shopping for lingerie and top. And we had family time teaching our boys some life skills like darting, billiards and car washing. They were so excited to try and learn something new. Thanks God for this quality time we had as couple and family, we felt the love during this long weekend.

Love until it hurts. After Thursday night when he threw me to the hell 9, he promised to win my heart back and he has done his best to shower me with love and affection. On Friday, he hugged and kissed me a lot and made me the only princess in his life. I was so touch and finally gave in. We had a great sex on Friday night. The next day, he asked me to have breakfast together while waiting our youngest son having soccer. I felt his love and can't say no when he hugged and cuddled me when we arrived at home and we had another sex and that's another best 2. We felt so connected and never felt this strong before. After that, we had lunch and shopping to renew our wardrobe. In the afternoon, he asked me to watch him playing badminton. This was my first time also watching him playing the sport that he's good at. He's so cool and made my heart melted. After settling down the kids, we had late dinner at Opio bar and had night strolling before ending the day with another great ...

In a perfect world One we've never known We would never need To face the world alone They can have their world We'll create our own I may not be brave o r strong or smart But somewhere in my secret heart I know l ove will find a way Anywhere I go,  I'm home As long as you're beside me Like dark t urning into day Somehow we'll come through Now that I've found you Love will find a way I was so afraid Now I realise Love is never wrong And so it never dies There's a perfect world Shining in your eyes And if only they could feel it too The happiness  I feel with you They'd know Love will find a way Anywhere we go, w e're home If we are there together Like dark t urning into day Somehow we'll come through Now that I've found you Love will find a way

Love will lead you back Someday I just know that Love will lead you back to my arms Where you belong I'm sure, sure as stars are shining One day you will find me again, it won't be long One of these days our love will lead you back One of these nights Ooh, I'll hear your voice again You're gonna say Ooh, how much you missed me You'll walk out this door But someday you'll walk back in And darling I know, ooh I know this will be Sometimes it takes Sometime you on your own now To find your way back home