Davin Indah Love story

As I am no longer training on weekend, I and hubby are able to spend a quality time with our kids. Last Saturday morning we brought the kids to Haw Par Villa, this was my first time visiting Haw Par Villa eventhough I have stayed in Singapore for almost 22 years and in fact it's near to our house. A lot of statues and stories behind the haw par villa but the kids didn't seem enjoy much haha, yah I think one time visit is enough. We took some nice and cute pictures together. After that we had lunch at Brotzeit to celebrate our youngest son's achievement of receiving Edusave award and also our first and second son's appointment as Peer Student Leaders. In the afternoon, we attended our youngest son award ceremony nearby our house. Well done kids, we are proud of you !

Lord, Your word promises that you’re near to the brokenhearted.  I am broken.  My heart hurts from all the hard parts  of this marriage.  You promise to save those who are crushed in spirit.  My spirit hurts from the deep cuts.  Save this marriage, heal my heart, restore the hope and joy in our marriage.  No, make it more full than it ever was, to begin with.  In Jesus’ name. (Psalm 34: 18) Heavenly Father, you said I could cast my burdens upon You and You will sustain me.  This hard season of marriage has lasted longer and been more painful than I ever could have imagined and I am failing.  Please take this burden and help me to not be shaken from the commitment to our marriage.  (Psalm 55:22) Holy Spirit, I am weak, hurting, and ready to give up on this whole mess of a marriage.  You said,  “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness”, but I am struggling to believe there is hope.  Take this ...

Our behaviour cannot be dependent on our husband.  God expects me to be a biblical wife, even if our husband sometimes don't embrace his godly role in the marriage.  That is what 1 Peter 3:1-4 is all about; living a life that is pleasing to God—A life that reflects His nature to the world, and of course, to husband. 1. A godly wife must pray Prayer invites God to work in our lives. Start by asking God to help change you into the biblical wife He desires you to be. Ask Him to reveal the areas you need to work on and to give you the discipline to achieve personal and spiritual growth. Also, pray for your husband.  Only God can convict our husbands of their sin and mold them into godly men.  But we can be our husband’s prayer warriors. Plead with God to work in your husband’s life and pray against attacks from the enemy. 2. Love your husband unconditionally God loved us without being loved in return.   Our love for our husband should imitate God’s love for us....

I just want to reflect back in our marriage relationship, things have changed in the past 2 years. We fought a lot especially over small stuffs and it's draining my energy level. I didn't even know him like he used to be after starting working and our wealth increased. He can be very sweet and another time I feel that I am like his biggest enemy.  When we fought, he told me that I don't care about him, his feelings and his needs. I really don't understand what makes him think like that. There are times that I can't accompany or obey his instructions right away not because I don't want but my physical body doesn't allow me to do that. I love him the same from the day we met, present and future even he has done something wrong, hurt me, I am able to forgive, let go and move on. But it seems that he expects me to please him more and more everyday. It's very difficult to communicate with him nowadays. He will manipulate and make that everything I say is wron...

This is the 11th day of 2023. I found it was tough for me to walk alone. Flashback, it didn't start well on the New Year when I was very upset on New Year eve and drowned myself with wine sorrowfully. Day by day, it is just getting tough for me. In my marriage relationship, I need to please hubby most of the time and sometimes I couldn't even handle his roller coaster emotion. He's so unpredictable, sometimes he can be very sweet, but there are times I feel that I am his biggest enemy. Like what happened last night, he suddenly was so cold to me, didn't want to hold my hand when we walked and when I asked him why he's so cold, anything I did wrong ? He only told me that he just need to accept my character and act professionally by doing functional as father and hubby. I was really clueless. I was trying to guess what I have done that upset him. Is it because I slept early and didn't accompany him to watch TV ? I was very down the day before because of my works. ...

This is our first Saturday in year 2023 as I don't have any training session, I spent my Saturday morning having quality time with my beloved family. I have promised to bring our youngest son to West Coast since last week, thus we went to West Coast Park in the morning. The kids were playing by themselves while we strolled around the park. When we were about to pick up the kids, we saw a man with a pair of blue macaw. The feathers are so beautiful and the master showered them with a spray of water. Curious, I went closer and started asking him some questions about his bird pet. He explained that blue macaw was a proud bird, his natural character is they are proud as a flock and they want master's full attention. This is how they survive. Once the master ignore them for something else, they will get very stress and slowly die. The important thing is how we manage this macaw so they are not over us and human is still their master. The only way is "IGNORE" them when they...

As our custom, we had first date in every new year. Usually we talked about our past year finance and discuss the outlook of this year finance. We also planned our trip this year and it's gonna be a major project. First, couple trip to Japan (spring time) this is my bucket list  Second, big family trip to Holyland (summer time) as pilgrimage trip Third, our family and friend trip to Japan (winter time). It's gonna be travelling fiesta this year and we pray over it so that our travel plans are aligned with God's plan.

This is our New Year Resolutions 2023